
I've been reading a book called
'The Sociopath Next Door' by Martha Stout. This reading has not been connected to my minstrelsy studies but to another area in life. However, I
have heard Michael Jackson described by a couple of commentators as having sociopathic tendencies.
Walter Yetnikoff, former CBS boss and MJ's right hand man for many years, describes his desperate need to 'win', to be number one as so and recent Sunday magazine interview quoted one aide who said MJ was 'almost sociopathic'. (Must get my cuttings out and have a look at that piece again.) He has also been described as a narcissist by journalists and writers like Margo Jefferson.
I read the section on narcissism and he did seem to fit the bill. (I can write more about this in a future post if people want to know what this book says about narcissism .)
The sociopath angle is much more confusing. Some of the behaviours I have read about do seem to fly dangerously close to the MJ bone but others seem widely off mark.
As you know I adore MJ, while not being blind to his faults. Reading this book has brought up even more stuff for me to think about in relation to him. I'm not trying to attack him just
understand him. For me he is like a many faceted diamond - fascinating, dazzling, infinitely complex. Note I use the
present tense. It's not that I believe he's alive, I don't, it's just that I never met him, I don't know him as a physical entity. He will always be an ethereal presence in my life - an 'is' not a 'was'!
I have a chance to go and see the film again tonight with some friends. I'll let you know if I succumb...